~Final COm!ng sOon!!!!!!~

Final,final and final...It coming soon again,it make me so sick..All the feeling come to me on this time,so scared,oh god please help me at this time..I promise I will never naughty with my mum again,this semester I cannot arrange my time table so well.It is because I has a lot of program at my college that I have to involved with it.So pressure on my head.

~LEadErship cOursEs at PD~

Last week,I went to the Hotel Seri Malaysia for the leadership courses at my college.I'm very excited to there with my friends of council student at my college.We go there for 3 days and 2 nights.Before arrived at PD,we stay at KPTM Kl hostel.For the next day,we went to PD by bus.In the bus,there was so happening.It is because all the council student of all KPTM collegers was also in the bus.We talking each other about ourself,some ideas to make our student felt comfortable with our college and anything that all of us want to know from the others.At the first day,i felt so tired it is because I don't have enough sleep.It is because the whole day I was in the bus.At there I got many new friends from other KPTM college.First when I go there I always think about my family,2 weeks I can't go home.It is because I busy with my college program.I felt so sad,I really miss my family,although I has many friends at my college it doesn't mean for me at this time.I miss my mum cooking and her smile.I also miss the moment we talk and jogging together.Continue with my leadership courses at PD,the way of activities at there are so different with activities at my college.Such as when the motivation on,the participant can bring the food and the drink at the back that are reserved to the table that the participant sit.I think it is the good way,it is because the participant doesn't felt sleepy.So that my story for the leadership that I go at PD...=)

~TEam BuildiNg At Nur Buk!t UnggUl~

On 23 January 2009,I go for a team building of Kolej Poly-Tech Mara at Nur Bukit Unggul Eco Resort.I went there for a 3 days and 2 night.I got a lot of experience when I went at there.This team building was handling by MindVision Training and Services.At there,there's a lot of activities that are prepared for the participant of the team building.Activities on the first day was a sosial interaction.The name of this activities is "Rantaian Mesra".All the participant must introduce theirself to the others.And then the second activities was build our confident and the real of leadership,and the name of this activities is "Liku-Liku Kehidupan".The first thing in my mind when I heard the name of this activities,it must be like at my secondary school when the participant that are going to for a camping must stay alone in the jungle or other location that are decided by the teachers,coach or the facilators.I felt so scared and my heart beating very fast on that day.But luckly the activities not the same as at my secondary school.On the second day,there are 3 activities that are prepared for the participant of the team building.The first activities is value and the responsibility of the leader.On this activities,it need a lot of patience and the strong mentality.Second activities is accomplish the problem and make decision.This activities call "Emergency Boat".The third activities is cooperate with our group.In this activities,the participant must ascend the flag in the group that are already know at the fist day come at here.The next day,I packing all my stuff and go back to the college.I felt so happy because I get the new experience go at there,and also get so many new friends...=)

~I will nEvEr...........=)

I will never walk alone... Why I said like that? It is because I has someone special in my life. Who you think that person? Of course someone special in my life was my boyfriend. We're in the same college but in different course. Firstly,I met him at the cyber cafe in front of my college. I went there with my friend, Nurul Hizrah. She was my old roommate. My new roommate is Nur Nazrila.
We're in the same college and class. Back to story about I met my boyfriend. Firstly, I very hate of him. He make me felt so exasperate at him.He said my face like vegetable seller at the market. But I don't know how can I falling in love with him. I think we maybe always quarrelling each other and if we don't quarrelling, we felt missing each other. And now, we always together and I hope we always together until we're married. He already met my parents and also most of my family. But, I never met his family because I'm so scared and shamed. I very like him because he is so handsome like Mawi I think, hehehe.... I love him very much and will never forgot him forever and ever until my last breath........=)

~How I Celebrate New Year~

Happy New Year for all of us!!This year I only celebrate my new year at my house,I don't have any plan for celebrate the new year.I think if I celebrate it,I only waste my time.It is because when I celebrate the new year,many cost I must pay.I must pay the food,the cost of the transportation and thing that I want to buy.I don't have a car yet so I must take a cab or bus when I want to go any places.I only have motorcycle and my father doesn't want me ride it because it so dangerous when the teenagers like me ride the motorcycle alone to celebrate the new year.Commonly,when the time of celebrating the new year,a lot of thing may happen.Such as accident and negative problem.Accident may caused because at the night of celebrating the new year,all the 'Mat Rempit' always racing each other and it can dangerous to the other people.Beside that,the teenagers always involved in negative problem such as drink alcohol,smoking,rape and destroy the public thing such as public phone and the playground.My father don't want me to involved with other negative problem,he want me to be a good daughter for him.Sometimes,I felt so angry and want to break loss.But,I know he do that thing because he very love me and want me to be a nice person...

~Miscommunication~

Budin is a part time worker at the petrol station during his leisure time while he is waiting for his result for Sijil Tinggi Persekolahan Malaysia(STPM).

This is a dialog between Budin and his friend Rahim.

Rahim : Working here is not difficult enough.Now if anyone who want to fill the fuel,they can do by itself.We just sit down on the kios take care of the counter and help the customer when they need some help.But,we also washing the windscreen but not all cars.

Budin : Sit at the counter,just take care of the money.Rilex,and also have the aircond.I’m just weird,why our people don’t want to work at the petrol station,always full foreigners from Bangladesh.

Rahim : I also don’t know,our people is lazy,after the examination,their parent don’t want their children looking for a job,but they give their children a motorbike.That’s why,many teenagers nowadays involved with negative problem such as ‘Mat Rempit’.I really respect at you Budin.While waiting the STPM result,you doesn’t waste your time,looking for the experience whether you’re only working at the petrol station.

Budin : Three days I work at here,I feel that it’s not so bad in here.We can ‘wash’ our eyes.There’s a lot of pretty girl at KL,with their own style.

Rahim : But,workinh at here little bit of dangerous.Bad people always robbery the petrol station.I’ve been robbed once,urine in my trousers.They want the money,I give all the money in the drawer.At least I’m safe.

Budin : We can’t do anything at the time?

Rahim : Want to fight?Are you crazy?They came here not by itself,also bring the weapon.If they attack me,I’m dead.That why when I saw curious car,I started to ‘cuak’.

Budin : How type of car want to ‘cuak’?

Rahim : Don’t you realize the modified blue kancil?Three time it came here but doesn’t fill the fuel.Maybe it want to rob us!I’m so ‘cuak’!.

Budin : Is that blue kancil with the sunroof that you’re talking about?I’m realize that it modified the car differently with the spare tyre hang at the back,same like Kembara car.Wait…

Budin quickly came out from the kios and then Rahim can see clearly Budin take a pail of water and watering the car.Happen a fuss between two boy in the car with Budin.The manager of the petrol station forcely came out to solving the fuss.And then,Budin enter the kios with a sour face.

Rahim : Why got a fuss at there?Why you watering that car?

Budin : I ‘cuak’ that car like you told me.The person on the car very angry with me and want to attack me with stering key.Luckly,Encik Bakar came quickly.If not,I’m dead.

Rahim : Why they’re so angry with you?

Budin : It is because their sunroof was open,and the water wet all the seat and carpet.The water also sump in the car.Luckly,Encik Bakar promise them want to wash and dry it but my salary will cut.They came here three times because they got a stomach aches and want to use our toilet.

Rahim : I don’t ask you to watering the car.

Budin : But,you told me to ‘cuak’ and then I go for it.Concidence,there’s a pail of water to washing windscreen.So I ‘cuak’ that car.

Rahim : ??????

In that time Rahim realize that ther’s some miscommunication between him and Budin.Budin doesn’t understand the meaning of ‘cuak’ that the Rahim told at him.In these case,the meaning of ‘cuak’ that have told by Rahim is fearor dread but in Perak dialect,’cuak’ means watering or douse.

~EffEctivE COmmUn!cat!On~

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